Then we met in the summer at friends party. How did she know he was single? I have quoted this section of your article below. Things were great. I have had no contact for this entire time. MIT behavioral economist, Dan Arielydid a study once where he took an audience who was listening to a band play and asked them to rate their attractiveness level before the band actually started playing.
But here are some effective ways you can deal with this knowledge.
5 Ways To Deal When Your Ex Is Dating Someone New
Over a year after I ended one relationship, I found some photos on Facebook of my ex with a woman I didn't recognize. But you need to do no contact. She said things like "i dont think its impossible that we would be together again in the future". It's the worst when your ex's new significant other is someone you don't even like. We live in the age of social media whether you like it or not where our every action is scrutinized. If you have to meet him because of the kids, keep your distance and don't speak to him. Although I know what I did broke his heart into pieces and although I know that what I did to our marriage caused the divorce, I know I can make him happy again.