Who knows? The classic 'Netflix and Chill' date will definitely be suggested if he's just interested in hooking up with you. If they are considering you as girlfriend material, they will show some of these signs. It's not until they've fully finished, that they consider you as a girl that's worth more than just a booty call. And behavior tells it all. If you've dated recently, it probably went something like this: After that, you gradually evolve to the physical part.
Why haven't you had sex yet?
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If you're both able to talk on the phone and catch up on everything that's been going on, you've got a good, long-term thing going on. Consider it a sobering quickie. Who knows more about how and why you function the way you do better than your pals? Is it usually to their first boyfriend? Now is not the time for quickies — if he takes his time trying to please you instead of jackhammering your vagina for two minutes and then falling asleep, there may be more to your relationship than just hooking up.