I want to say that things get easier as we get older, but that isn't always the case. By Tiffany Grace Reyes. Once you hit 30, you don't need to get married and start a family, but you should be mature enough to truly appreciate a good thing when you see it. I later found out that he thought that I was looking at him weird when I asked if he meant it, so he was really embarrassed. If just the sight of your boyfriend or girlfriend can lift your mood no matter what you've been going through, then it might just be love! If you find yourself constantly falling in love and saying "I love you" first, only to have relationships blow up in your face, maybe don't follow that impulse the next time you meet someone you really like. But the truth is that someone always has to go first.
Well, not really.
Is Saying "I Love You" After A Month Of Dating Too Soon?
Are they top of the list for your weekend plans? I love you, too. This theory would lead me to posit that saying "I love you" early on is a big fat red flag, and that no matter how big your feelings are a month into a relationship, you should probably shut your trap. AleksandarGeorgiev Getty Images. However, how would you feel if your partner didn't reciprocate the love, or freaked out?