I made the tough decision to quit my job and even went a long time without income no job offers. My email is my username at gmail dot com and if you are near Olympia there is always beer, pie, and good walks through the forest at my house for you. I wholeheartedly agree with what other posters have said. It creates drama and I don't think it is appropriate considering the circumstances. But I feel like this is a scab that I pick off every day. I don't believe that for a second.
With the current situation I know I would be doing my team a disservice as well as myself by gutting this one out that is why I requested a transfer.
He's going along with Emma's schemes because she's the one driving the relationship and providing him with sex. And sadly, as much as you feel 'done wrong', what happened happened and it isn't illegal so stop working yourself up over it. Up until then, I thought Emma and I were friends. My ex and i work together and he is dating our coworker By carina5 years ago. So it was a crazy merry-go-round of cheating and betrayal on all kinds of levels And this is how life is for cheaters, where they never fully ever have a stable life because they ARE cheaters and will never trust anybody becuase they can't trust themselves or their partners, so chaos and short-lived and volatile relationships ensue.